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MY HOLIDAY "DONE" BUDDY

12/9/2021

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The holidays can be troublesome for me, not because of the sweets and tempting goodies--those I know to stay away from!  For me the challenge is the parade of food that gets displayed intermittently, especially at a pot luck or buffet.

Serve me food on a plate and I know what to eat, but serve it to me piecemeal and my brain starts to chatter. My disease rears it ugly head and starts calculating what I've eaten, what I can still eat,  how many calories I ate before this was served, and is that on my food plan, is that part of my meal...?

Although I  survive, it's not without a great deal of discomfort and "dodging bullets." That is not serenity. I like to eat so I hear god, not so I hear my brain chatter.  

For me, a "Done" Buddy helps. When I have eaten my meal (protein, veggies, fruit, and sometimes a starch), having someone in program to call or text to tell them I am "done" is a life saver. Sometimes getting a "done" text from them can even help me when I might be in negotiation with myself. "The thought crossed my mind..." Being a "Done" buddy helps us both. 


I used to have a "Done" Buddy every night so that when dinner was over and I had my fruit, I would text "done." End of story. Nothing more passes these lips, except a good night kiss from my husband.  They would in turn text me "done" and we knew that there was someone else out there calling the meal "done."

This kind of support is what fellowship is all about.  I highly recommend whether you are a newcomer or an old-timer, finding a holiday "done" buddy is an easy and wonderful way to do service. And of course, when all else fails, pray!

Jacquie E. - Central Oregon Intergroup
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Lesley K
12/12/2021 02:10:45 pm

Thank you Jacquie! Even worse is when someone comes late to the potluck and I had my plate already. But being done supports my recovery. No seconds is my rule. Great idea to have a done buddy especially when I know a meal is going to be tricky. When I'm visiting my kids it is often that way but I can text a buddy at home 'Done!' Thanks again. Lesley

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Jean M
12/16/2021 02:59:52 am

Ah, the value of meetings and listening to shares. After many meetings over my years in program, I have another suggestion for living well with being a compulsive overeater and recovery. I say "if I only start eating three times a day, I only have to stop three times a day'. The "done buddy" text puts a period on that thought. Thanks Jacquie for your share. Jean M

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